Chessed is the Jewish idea that we should go out of our way to perform acts of charity and kindness toward everyone around us. This is seen as both a duty, and a service to Hashem. While there are many Jewish texts that explain this, I think one very fine description of the process can be found in the writings of a first century Jew named Paul. You might be familiar with him.
In Romans 12, Paul describes our lives as living sacrifices. He gives us many different examples of not simply fighting evil with good, but ignoring the evil act completely while performing acts of kindness.
14 Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse.
What I think may be missed in the reading is a practical reason for doing this. Yes we are to have the mind and heart of Messiah and be good representatives of Hashem on earth. But there is also a practical healing application.
21 do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.
That verse for me is what the entire chapter boils down to. Every smile, every dismissal of offense, every act of chessed, increases the sum total of Good in the world by a little bit.
Think of it as a business transaction. A business will create a product and sell it at higher than cost. The consumer will then purchase this product. If the transaction was honest, both parties come away with added value. The business received the customers’ money and profits, while the customer received a product that was worth more to him than the money. This is the process of creating wealth.
Acts of kindness work the same way. The cost to produce an act of kindness is your pride. If you, as Paul says and “Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment,” then the personal cost to you will be far less than the market value of your kindness. What this means is that the margin of spiritual profit for even a small act of kindness is huge. And because of the low cost, we don’t have to be stingy. We can invest our kindness everywhere. Most importantly, every act of chessed you perform will increase both the spiritual wealth of you and your customer. I think that bears repeating.
Every act of chessed you perform will increase both the spiritual wealth of you and your customer.
Evil is not some incredible force in the world, though its effects are devastating. Like poverty describes an absence of physical wealth, evil describes an absence of spiritual wealth. You cannot combat poverty with more poverty, and you cannot combat evil with evil. If you find yourself leaning toward making a nasty comment, think of it as a spiritual bank statement and consider investing in a kindness generating market. It’s no accident that Paul talks about the Fruits of the Spirit. While we often use fruit to describe the effect of our labors, it’s also the cause. No tree was ever created without a seed, nor was there ever a business created without capital. By planting whatever small spiritual seeds we have now, we don’t lose them, we insure an abundance. By investing wealth in a growing economy, we create more wealth.
By providing acts of kindness, we improve both ourselves and the world around us. Just think. If you improve, even a little, the mood of just one person, how much better will the lives of those he touches be? And what about the lives the touched touch. With just one act of chessed you literally change the world.